It is so warm to receive a body with another body. A skin with another skin. I love the skin when it comes out of the shower. I love the thought that the smells that mingle will linger on the body for a while when the lover leaves. I love the glances in the middle of the erotic dance of the bodies. The soft kisses, the occasional tongue (not all the time, all the time it loses its grace). The kiss should be wet, soft, gradually rise in tone, the tongue should be in some moments. I have a whole ethic of kissing, I will upload another post talking about it in more detail. Lately I think a lot about what really turns me on erotically in a sexual encounter. And it's not really what happens per se, but something about the connection of the bodies, beyond the dialogue. It's really being there, paying attention to the desires and being attentive to the energy of your lover. If you're attentive to your energy and your lover's energy, nothing should really go wrong.