I’ve chosen to keep this part of my life hidden from my family, and it’s a decision I stand by, though it hasn’t always been easy. For me, this topic touches on something deeply personal—something I’m not ready to share with the people closest to me. And honestly, that’s okay. Not everything about our lives needs to be a family conversation.

One of the main reasons I keep it private is the fear of misunderstanding or judgment. Family, for all their love and good intentions, often sees us through a lens of their own expectations and experiences. Sharing something deeply personal might invite questions or opinions I’m not prepared to handle. It’s not about mistrust; it’s about maintaining boundaries and protecting my mental space. Some topics, especially those that challenge societal or cultural norms, can be hard for others to grasp, and I’ve found peace in not having to explain myself over and over.

Another reason is that this part of my life is still a work in progress. I’m exploring, growing, and learning, and I want the freedom to make mistakes and course-correct without the weight of external scrutiny. Keeping it hidden allows me to preserve the sanctity of my journey—my space to experiment, reflect, and evolve without outside interference.

I believe more people should consider keeping certain parts of their lives private, at least until they’re ready to share. Privacy isn’t about secrecy; it’s about self-preservation and control over your narrative. It’s okay to take your time, to decide when or if you want to let others in. Protecting your energy and your peace is an act of self-care, and in some cases, keeping a part of yourself hidden can be a powerful form of self-respect.