XOcleo (Berlin)
Gepostet am 17.12.2018 01:44
How to be a good client: Contacting your escort
I recently recorded an episode of my podcast, Business or Pleasure on this topic of "How to be a good client"
Being a good client comes down to one thing and one thing only. Respect.
Respect for your escorts time, procedures, their body, their profession, their privacy and their professionalism.
A first impression can only be made once.
On my profile I state the most basic things I am looking for:
Who are you, what do you want, when, where and for how long.
If I were to approach an escort it would read like this:
Hello, my name is Mark Müller, I'm interested in a domination booking. My interests are in strap on play, restraints (rope is my preference but happy to use whatever you have), and spanking. I'm in Berlin and staying at the Ritz Carlton on Potsdamer Platz for work this week. I'm available on Wednesday (18th) or Thursday (19th) at 7pm and I'd like to meet with you for 2 hours. As you can see from my profile I have several positive reviews from other escorts. I'd love to meet with you, please let me know if you should require any additional information or a deposit.
Best regards,
Peter
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Do you see how this message contained everything I would need to work with in order to meet with you? I'd only need to quickly check my diary and let you know if I am available or not. It also shows me you've read my whole profile.
Instead, most interactions require a laborious back and forth where I have to drag every last bit of information out.
If you have a definite plan in mind I can work with it or not.
Keep this in mind when booking an escort. Respect. Respect their time. You are approaching us because you want to meet. You know what you want so tell us. Tell us all of it within the very first message. If you don't have a clear picture of what you want it tells me that you are contacting me unnecessarily and that you don't actually have an intention to meet. Even if I were to do the work of extracting the necessary information out of you I'm already feeling a touch disrespected. You don't want that. A happy escort makes a happy client.
Stick to the 4 W's and 1 H
Who, What, When, Where, How long
and you really cannot go wrong.
bigfoot78 (Gießen)
17.12.2018 14:09
I think Peter aka Mark Müller should use only one identity per mail :o)
Buschmann (Berlin)
17.12.2018 21:59
I agree!
I agree completley to every single word.
Thank you, thanks a lot for this nice and precise remarks and points you made.
Hugs and kisses for that.
Everybody should think twice before contacting a lady worth 300 bugs an hour, highly professionel with a very tight time schedule. One imprudent question of a customer and 5 Eur go down the drain if you take the time to answer.
If any moron starts a discussion about terms and services you’ll loose a lot of money and even worse you can’t hear or say anything because of the noise all the coins will make while dropping down the kitchen sink.
So this little and easy advice you gave is very helpful. Since you’re on KM for a couple of months you probably have noticed that the germans are numb and dumb, especially the male species in Berlin and they badly need advice.
Since I am one of this male Berlin species I’m so grateful for your help. I am always flutterd and excited and my heart and brain is jumping when I get some really good advice from down under.
„Stick to the 4 W's and 1 H
Who, What, When, Where, How long“
That is great and so easy. In fact it is as easy as using public transport (Öffentlicher VERKEHR, für alle die nicht perfekt englisch sprechen)
If you use ‚öffentlicher Verkehr‘ you chek the „who, what, when, where and how long‘“ like the most natural thing in the world and you do it in advance.
No man in Berlin would even think about bothering the staff although they get less than 1/20 of your wage per hour. So what a disgusting crime if anybody talks to you and wastes your precious time asking about things and facts he can work out for himself.
The 4 W’s and 1 H are really good advice and it is really as simple as using public transport.
By the way there comes another advice to my mind I got from many other womens:
never, never ever, regardless of emergency or not
there are the two situations where you
NEVER USE YOUR MOJO
1. in public
2. if not appreciated
XOcleo (Berlin)
18.12.2018 16:29
Buschmann, I really cannot tell if this comment is in "tongue in cheek" or not. Respect is significant to everyone regardless of their price and to put it bluntly if I enter a booking feeling resentful the client will receive a resentful escort. If I arrive feeling safe and respected, the client will have a much better experience from start to finish.
Buschmann (Berlin)
19.12.2018 16:03
@XOcleo: of course it is 'tongue in cheek' and I was cheeky, at least I got a reputation to uphold.
To be honest I offer full respect to every lady on this platform in the way Aretha Franklin is asking for in her song R E S P E C T
I wasn't shure and I'm still not if you offer respect in the way Otis Redding is asking for in his song R E S P E C T, thats why I was so cheeky.