Adventsescort Lore im heutigen 4. Türchen erzählt von ihrem Lebensweg zwischen mehreren Kontinenten. Außerdem verrät sie, warum sie ihre Körperbehaarung als erotisches Statement feiert, wie sie vom „Kiss & Cuddle“-Brothel in Australien zur leidenschaftlichen Golden-Shower-Enthusiastin in Berlin wurde und welche Role Models ihr geholfen haben, klare Grenzen zu ziehen. Viel Spaß beim Lesen - heute mal wieder auf Englisch, denn Lore stammt aus den USA!
KM-Team: Dear Lore, welcome to this year’s Escort Advent calendar - your debut! Just your brief profile blurb is already full of info… it sparks tons of questions!
Let’s start: Your profile says USA-Australia-Berlin. Would you say that such biographies have become typical nowadays?
Lore: I initially laughed at this question, not from condescension but out of pure obliviousness. I had no idea that such biographies would be typical enough to merit this question to be asked. It is simply my truth. I moved to Australia last year and that's where I added 'Sex Goddess' to my CV, lol! So, I thought it was important for me to write that is where I am based since... well, technically it is?
I am a US citizen, I was born and raised there... went to university there. So factually that is something I need to reference since when clients meet me it is something they automatically notice - my Californian accent and perfect English (it's my mother tongue!).
Lastly, Berlin is sort of a home base as well. I had lived here for some time before I made the choice to move away to Australia, so Berlin informed a lot about my work as a performance artist and also how I engage with the world. Let's face it, Berlin can be rough. When I moved to Australia, it enabled me to let go of a lot of armour I had acquired from living in Berlin and recenter the tenderness in human interaction.
So whether or not it is typical to write in a biography of someones internationality, I think it is important to identify and share mine.... that way my client gets to know a bit more about how i might relate to them - with Australian friendliness, American charm, Berlin rough but demure sensuality - before meeting me in person.
KM-Team: Why are you in Berlin, and what made you decide to enrich Kaufmich with your presence?
Lore: I am in Berlin because I had a spatial performance art project at Nollendorfplatz over the summer. I was meant to go back to Australia in July but Berlin truly sucked me back in and I fell in love with the city again. I kept postponing my stay and then just decided to stay and leave when I am ready.
As for Kaufmich, I had heard really good things about the clients and user interface of Kaufmich from my Berliner friends, so I decided to give it a-go. I'm very happy with it although it was a HUGE learning curve for me. In Australia, I was trained in a brothel. I only worked out of a brothel and in that space the steps of service are very different. So I had to learn quickly about pricing, about services I should offer (since in Australia my clients were sweetly vanilla and really just wanted a kiss and a cuddle), how to sort out time wasters and even how to spot potentially dangerous clients based on how they become territorial or hyper obsessive. I do appreciate that with Kaufmich you can ignore or report users who could be a threat to others. However, I still have had really strange moments where I miss the brothel environment very much.
KM-Team: You describe yourself as an unshaven provider. Do you think the demand for “unshaven” has been increasing lately?
Lore: Oh this is a great market research question! I feel like, as a provider, I should know the answer to this question but as an artist i'm just going with the floooow haha - The thing is, even if the demand was decreasing I still would not shave. I really love my hairy body. I find hair glorious and so sexy. I think because the women in my family are exceptionally gorgeous and some even have hairy chests! Sadly, I do no have a hairy chest but growing up around beautiful hairy women was my normal.
Also, for me, shaving is just awful: The itching, the rashes, the discharge, the routine of upkeep, feeling like my puss is exposed to all the elements ('Oh, my!'- Wizard of Oz reference). What I can say is that my clients truly worship my hair and I love that so much! It's very affirming to be able to experience feeling desired by being just in my natural form and for folks to enjoy it for what it is.
In the brothel in Australia, it is different because the clients would have no idea I am unshaven (unless they caught a glimpse of my armpits) until we got to the bedroom. Then i would reveal, without really thinking about it, and they would just drool! I personally forget that having hair is something that is desired and I find it beautiful and HOT when i am reminded.
KM-Team: A very nice statement! Golden Shower isn’t (yet) for everyone. What fascinates you about it so much that you celebrate it so openly in your profile? #NewGoldenShowerQueenofBerlin
Lore: This question is everything! Like I said, in Australia, my clients really just wanted a kiss and a cuddle so coming to Berlin I had to learn fast that a kiss and a cuddle was not going to set me apart from the rest. I would peruse profiles to understand what is offered and I kept seeing over and over that 'golden shower' was literally a staple. Now, I had only ever given a golden shower to a lover one time so I was completely a newbie. However, I have a fantastic client who really likes it wet and he gave me great pointers on how to ensure client satisfaction. I took his advice to heart and made sure I was well prepared. Together we had such a fantastic time and really, I had no idea I could enjoy giving golden showers so much! I felt like all of my inhibitions were released and in the room we were free to explore desire beyond what is considered the norm and indulge in something really truthful.
In my opinion what makes sex exciting is truth. What makes sex memorable and above and beyond is not being afraid to live in our truth. I find golden showers one of the most truthful sexual acts because, it comes out of the desire to just want to be so devoured, so immersed in someones allure that you just want to be showered in their essence. Do I take pride in being able to provide that? Damn RIGHT! Do I celebrate being able to experience that? Hell yeah!
KM-Team: Golden Shower here we go! You set very clear boundaries and know exactly what your service includes, and what it doesn’t. Who are your role models in that regard, and why?
Lore: My role models for boundary setting are my friends Noah (based in Australia) and The Incredible Edible Akynos (based in Berlin). These providers have given me sage advice when it comes to being crystal clear about my service and fees without any apology or insecurity. Without them, I would be easily taken advantage of and when I first started providing services, I was absolutely taken advantage of. I didn't even realize it at the time. Noah and Akynos have both been working in this industry for over a decade and with that comes wisdom, tricks of the trade, and a significant amount of care and understanding towards clientele.
So, in my work I try to embody that power which helps me to understand my internal power much more. I do not argue with my clients. Period. I do not try to persuade clients. If they mention that a cost is not to their liking or they should be entitled to more services or whatever, I simply send them a polite 'I am not interested and I hope you find exactly what you need' response and keep moving. How can I enter into an intimate relationship with someone, when at the very beginning they are negotiating my boundaries?
Overall, I learned from Noah and Akynos that I never have to beg to be desired and that clients who respect me and my service will come in abundance. And they do.
KM-Team: Christmas time: family time or lonely angel, what’s your favorite season vibe?
Lore: I love Christmas. I can shout this off the top of the snowy ice capped mountains while decked in red and green faux fur outer wear and Santa Claus earrings gleefully dangling from my ears. I fahkin' love Christmas!! My vibe is family and friend time all the way. I light Christmas candles, I make ginger bread houses, I cook all day for my loved ones, go to Christmas markets, indulge in the most German Christmas delicacies and drinks!
For as long as I can remember, Christmas has just been a time to hold those you love even closer. Here's to a joyous Christmas surrounded by family, chosen family and friends! *Prost!*
KM-Team: Thanks so much for your answers Lore - a 100%, just like your Kaufmich trust level.
Lore hat alles, was Ihr Euch als Kund*innen wünscht? Nur zu, lest Euch nochmals Lores Profil durch und schreibt ihr eine erste Nachricht! Das wird Euer unvergesslichster 4. Dezember!
Morgen geht's außerdem weiter mit dem unwiderstehlichsten Adventskalender der Welt. Bleibt dran!
Nicht vergessen: unser erstes Lucky Tuesday Quiz-Gewinnspiel läuft noch bis 5. Dezember! Mitmachen und heiße Preise gewinnen. Alle Infos hier!
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